Seeing a loved one struggle with addiction is heartbreaking. An intervention can be a life-saving step, but it requires careful planning to be effective and non-confrontational.
Planning is Key
Never stage an intervention on the spur of the moment or when the individual is under the influence. Gather a team of trusted family and friends who can speak calmly and lovingly.
Write Impact Letters
Each participant should write a letter. Start with love ("I love you because..."), describe the impact ("It hurts me to see you..."), and end with the offer of help ("We have found a place for you..."). Stick to the script.
Have a Plan B
Decide beforehand what the consequences will be if they refuse help (e.g., no longer providing financial support). Be prepared to follow through.
Consider a Professional
Emotions run high. A professional interventionist can mediate the conversation and keep it on track, greatly increasing the chances of adherence.
Success Tip:
The goal is to break through denial with love, not shame. Keep the tone supportive, not accusatory.